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There was
a woman who had been diagnosed with cancer and had been given 3 months to live. Her
Dr. told her to start making preparations to die. So she contacted her pastor and
had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told
him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read,
and what she wanted to be wearing. The woman also told her pastor that she
wanted to be buried with her favorite bible. Everything was in order and the pastor
was preparing to leave when the woman suddenly remembered something very important
to her.
"There's one more thing." She said excitedly.
"What's that?"
came the pastor's reply.
"This is very
important." The woman continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my
right hand."
The pastor stood looking at
the woman not knowing quite what to say.
"That shocks you
doesn't it?" The woman asked.
"Well, to be honest,
I'm puzzled by the request," said the pastor.
The woman explained. "In all my years of
attending church socials and functions where food was involved and
let's be honest, food is an important part of any church event
spiritual or otherwise, my favorite part was when whoever was clearing
away the dishes of the main course would lean over and say 'you can keep
your fork.' It was my favorite part because I knew that
something better was coming. When they told me to keep my fork, I knew
that something great was about to be given to me. It wasn't Jell-O or
pudding. It was cake or pie. Something with substance. So I just want
people to see me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I
want them to wonder 'What's with the fork?' Then I want you to
tell them: 'Something better is coming so keep your fork too."'
The pastor's eyes were
welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the woman good-bye. He knew this would be
one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that that
woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She KNEW that something better was
coming.
At the funeral people
were walking by the woman's casket and they saw the pretty dress she was wearing and her
favorite bible and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and over the pastor heard
the question "What's with the fork?" And over and over he smiled.
During his message, the
pastor told the people of the conversation he had with the woman shortly before she
died. He also told them about the fork and about what it symbolized to her. The
pastor told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told
them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either.
He was right. So the next
time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you oh so gently that there is something
better coming.
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